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  • Brigit Law 11:42 pm on September 5, 2012 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Autism, , Freedom, Horese riding therapy, Paralympics, Special Needs   

    Going for a Ride … to Freedom! 

    Horses, kids and people with special needs are ‘my thing’. It took me a while to find it. In fact it took a whole move from the Low Lands (Europe) to America and 20 years of professional limboing between PR, Advertising, Trade Promotion work and Independent Communications Coaching , but I am glad I found it.

    Finding a golden medalist in the Paralympics somewhere tucked away in the corner of a Dutch newspaper (De Telegraaf) and without picture gives me the absolute creeps. After the ‘normal’ Olympics with Dutch medalists on the front page for days on end, a full page picture of the Paralypics medalist is an absolute must. These people should be respected for their achievements more than anyone.

    Can you imagine a person in a wheelchair, giving it 200% to stand up and get on a horse to enjoy riding like you and me? I can. A very special student I am helping at the therapeutic riding lessons does it.

    With a bit of help of all of us, children, people with special needs and others around us who need a little extra support, can do what we do.

    I say, that is the REAL ride to freedom. And it is the ONLY ride to democracy!

  • Brigit Law 3:16 pm on March 13, 2012 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , Gender Balance, , Muna Abu Sluyman   

    Balancing Out The Corporate World With Quotas 

    Last week a post from the Economic World Form showed up on my Facebook with Muna Abu Sluyman from Saudi Arabia sharing her ideas about gender and equality at the work floor.

    In her blog ‘Balancing Out The Corporate World’ she explains why mandatory quotas are needed to ensure that women join the decision makers in this world. I couldn’t agree more with her.

    Indeed, quotas are a crucial step to female empowerment in business with the end goal to achieve a better balance in decision making and, hence, finding solutions to the needs of a community or society at different levels of emotion. The latter – the goal – is often forgotten in the debate about this instrument, what a quota merely is. That is why we all, men and women, need to force ourselves to look beyond the instrument and understand better the goal we want to reach. This important worldwide debate should not be belittled or slowed down by some of the less flattering details of the instrument.

    In many instances, quotas are not very popular and stir up a lot of emotions. You only have to look as far as the Dairy and Fishing industry to see how quotas give people the creeps. But is that a reason not to use them?

    Don’t get me wrong, working with quotas is not a concept that I favor in principal and like to think we don’t need them. Regularly, my husband – a decision maker in industry – and I have tough discussions about it. On the other hand, why is it so difficult to accept that quotas help? Many woman – and I am one of them – just need that extra push get a sound and respectful female leadership community to look up to. Why? Because there is an urgent need for people and profiles we as women can more easily:

    • identify with,
    • admire, and
    • get inspired by.

    The key emotional ingredients for moving up and forwards in business, wouldn’t you say?

    I know, quotas feel like putting an elephant in a china shop. However, it is not unusual in business to put an elephant in a china shop in order to get things moving and shaking and more importantly, to get people to change their believes that are hidden far back in their mind and steer their unconscious behavior. So, quotas could be the hammer on a fragile nail that refuses to go in. Now, the challenge is to use the hammer in a subtle way.

    Back to the challenge of inspiration and perception. When I searched for images to go with this article I noticed how difficult it is to find images that portray the essence of this subject . If you Google on let’s say ‘Board Woman’, you get girls in bikini. Online magazines like Spiegel Online lack imagination with an awful image of a lake and mountains when covering the Norway Case in their article ‘Norway’s Experience Shows Compulsory Quotas Work’

    And another very sad image of a woman alone in a meeting room was shown alongside the article Norway’s New Quota: Corporate Board 40% Women Or Else!

    And what do you think about this awful image alongside another article from Spiegel Online ‘Gender Equality’.  The Dominatrix looks like a nicer person to work with than this woman …!

    And perhaps wort of all are magazines and blogs that do not even have an image with their articles on gender equality, such as Ignore the doubters. Norway’s quota on women in the boardroom is working

    Sadly it looks to me that the media wants us to believe that we have a long, muddy and indefinite path to go. Of course, it is nothing like that at all. It are all man who wrote these articles.

    What we need is a tsunami of contemporary images of women in this world doing their leadership job on a daily base. Women like the Principal of my kid’s elementary public school, Scotland Elementary School (PA), who steered the school into the top three ranking of public schools in the area.

    Windows of opportunities are opening for women, but for how long will they stay open? I am sure that this era of social practices and emotions will be followed up by a new one where men will claim their positions in leadership back, whether in a traditional or new format. The changing of the wheel goes fast. Change in business and society lays around the corner, all the time.

    And THAT, my dearest reader, is WHY we need QUOTAS as a mean to enhance Female Leadership.

    • gromykl 4:00 pm on May 1, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Couldn’t agree more! 🙂 Just wrote a similar blogpost a little while ago. Found this blog through twitter searching on expat, just started off as a expat spouse myself with a small child and are trying to find my way

    • Mike 1:38 pm on August 17, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Your first error is think that for start much people support female empowerment like something good for our society. Your second error is think that the end justifies the means, and it turns worse when you understand that the last objetive is not shared for most of the people. If you dare to break one of the few principles that is really accepted for most of the people like valid, like is formal equality, to be able to favour women ¿how would you defend yourself if appeared a new social-engineer ideology that conclude that its better for the society, men and women, return to the traditional sketch, and that the state must break the formal equality in order to get that?

      • Brigit Law 4:54 pm on August 20, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Mike, female empowerment, – or a women’s gateway to equal participation in working life as I prefer to call it – is not something one supports but merely confirms. It is like potty training a toddler: you need to give the toddler a potty to succeed. For woman’s equal participation you need to give her a quota to succeed.

  • Brigit Law 1:36 am on September 15, 2011 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Herman van Veen, lyrics, muziek, , songteksten, workshop   

    Gezocht: Engelse versie van “Als ik kon toveren” (Herman van Veen) 

    Voor het Herfst Festival op de Amerikaanse school van mijn kinderen – wij zijn deze zomer naar Pennsylvania verhuist – zoek ik een Engelse versie/vertaling van het lied “Als ik kon toveren ” van Herman van Veen.

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  • Brigit Law 4:02 pm on July 25, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Training met Storytelling I: Meer dan Verbeelding 

    Voor TheNextTrainer.nl in Nederland blog ik drie weken lang over Storytelling & Training. Aandacht voor het aanspreken en werken met onbewuste denkpatronen van cursisten ligt centraal. Mijn eerste blog van vorige week is hier te lezen.

  • Brigit Law 9:39 pm on June 13, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    How leading firms make their sustainability reports stand out 

    A couple of weeks ago questions were raised in CSR Europe LinkedIn Group on how leading firms can make their sustainability reports stand out.

    Looking at my clients and research it is clear that emotional communication is becoming a strong business advantage that involves sustainability and CSR policies or strategies.

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  • Brigit Law 1:23 pm on May 12, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Children Stories Technically Superior in Communication 

    Children’s storybooks are my favourite. That and theatre scripts.

    Not just for leisure or my role as a parent, but mainly for R&D in my profession.

    Compared to business communication, they are superior in technique for reaching unconscious believes and behaviour of the reader/listener.

    Why they are better? I’ll give you some examples. (More …)

  • Brigit Law 9:58 am on May 9, 2011 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , , , , , design thinking, patterns   

    Design: A Way Of Thinking, Not A Set of Formal Skills and Tools 

    Just read this lovely tweet from Jayel Aheram@aheram:

    “Design is not the narrow application of formal skills, it is a way of thinking.” – Chris Pullman

    How true this is! Whether you talk about fashion design, industrial design or organizational design, its success is based on the thinking process behind the decision to use a certain series of tools and skills to make ideas happen.

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